Thursday, February 10, 2011 | By: Anita

Masks

Have you heard the phrase, “You can’t judge a book by its cover”? It’s true. Most of the time, people are not who they seem to be. They think that others will be offended or disgusted when you see them for who they really are. So, everyday they hide behind the mask.

What is the mask? It’s smiles, laughter, a short temper, an indifferent attitude or acting clueless. We show whatever type of face or attitude that will keep the demons away. The mask is a lie, you may think that hiding your pain is helping you live but instead, it is holding you prisoner.

Here’s a scenario that everyone can relate to: someone in your life hurts you. It could be physical, verbal or emotional. When it’s over, they walk away without apology or regret. Because they don’t care, you refuse to forgive them. That unforgiving attitude turns you into someone else. You lash out at people with your tongue or even your fists. All the while, the person who hurt you is walking around without any thought of you whatsoever. Does this sound familiar? God wants to heal your wounds. Jesus died on the cross so that you could be free from bearing that pain alone (Isaiah 53:5). If you’ve never read the Bible or it has been a long time, here are a few people you need to become acquainted with: The woman at the well, the Samaritan woman, the woman with the issue of blood. Their wounds weren't evident to others, except Jesus. Their belief in Jesus healed the source of their pain.

Living with your pain is not God’s will. He wants to heal your mind, body and soul through His love and your faith that He can do it. This doesn’t mean that the pain goes away all at once. Sometimes physical pain can stay with you as a lesson through your life to others who are suffering. God’s love can turn difficult circumstances into something that can benefit your life and give Him glory! Many bitter people are holding on to hurt, hiding behind the mask they've created. Giving up the pain you have hidden for so long means you are opening yourself up to the possibility of more pain. But, God won’t hurt you. Let His healing wash out the fear and bring you back to life once again.

Dr. Seuss quote "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." can help gain the confidence you might need to take off your mask. We all wear masks at one time or another; what is it, in your life that you need to be healed from so that your mask can come off?

Blessings

5 comments:

tomandlynette said...

Amen! Very well said Anita.

Candice said...

I think the how-to process of giving up pain or accepting healing is much harder than that. It must be, or those of us who cling so tightly to it would let it go. When you stumble on the secret, let me know.

tomandlynette said...

Its no secret Candice. But you are right - it can be hard. You have to be willing to trust God. That's the only way.
Tom

Candice said...

Can you trust what you cannot see, feel or sense? Or is that the point? - to get out of the boat, walk on the water, knowing it can't be done?
Is that faith ? to trust in doubt, stumble blindly forward in darkness, to be calm in the storm? Is He asking us to trust? - BECAUSE we don't?

Becky said...

well said, very thought provoking
makes you stop and think about the masks you may be hiding behind...
I am so glad that God is patient and willing to wait for us to reveal things at just the right time

Blessings
Bliss