Thursday, October 30, 2014 | By: Anita

Good Reading

I have always loved to read. As a kid growing up, my favourite thing to do was to find a quiet corner and lose myself in a book for hours on end. Sure it was nerdy but it was always an exciting way to go on an adventure. To be honest, not much has changed now that I am an adult.

I still love to read. Throw in a few cups of tea and call it wonderful!

At the beginning of the year I set for myself a goal to read 150 books {currently I'm reading book #75} This goal seems somewhat lofty and I am not sure if I’ll get to 150 but I’ll keep on ~ cause yah! I like to read.

Here's a list of the 5 best books I’ve read so far!


On the Island ~ Tracey Garvis-Graves
When thirty-year-old English teacher Anna Emerson is offered a job tutoring T.J. Callahan at his family's summer rental in the Maldives, she accepts without hesitation; a working vacation on a tropical island trumps the library any day.
T.J. Callahan has no desire to leave town, not that anyone asked him. He's almost seventeen and if having cancer wasn't bad enough, now he has to spend his first summer in remission with his family - and a stack of overdue assignments -- instead of his friends.
Anna and T.J. are en route to join T.J.'s family in the Maldives when the pilot of their seaplane suffers a fatal heart attack and crash-lands in the Indian Ocean. Adrift in shark-infested waters, their life jackets keep them afloat until they make it to the shore of an uninhabited island. Now Anna and T.J. just want to survive and they must work together to obtain water, food, fire, and shelter.
Their basic needs might be met but as the days turn to weeks, and then months, the castaways encounter plenty of other obstacles, including violent tropical storms, the many dangers lurking in the sea, and the possibility that T.J.'s cancer could return. As T.J. celebrates yet another birthday on the island, Anna begins to wonder if the biggest challenge of all might be living with a boy who is gradually becoming a man.”


What she left Behind ~ Ellen Marie Wiseman
“Ten years ago, Izzy Stone’s mother fatally shot her father while he slept. Devastated by her mother’s apparent insanity, Izzy, now seventeen, refuses to visit her in prison. But her new foster parents, employees at a local museum, have enlisted Izzy’s help in cataloguing items at a long-shuttered state asylum. There, amid piles of abandoned belongings, Izzy discovers a stack of unopened letters, a decades old journal, and a window into her own past.
Clara Cartwright, eighteen years old in 1929, is caught between her overbearing parents and her love for an Italian immigrant. Furious when she rejects an arranged marriage, Clara’s father sends her to a genteel home for nervous invalids. But when his fortune is lost in the stock market crash, he can no longer afford her care—and Clara is committed to the public asylum.
Even as Izzy deals with the challenges of yet another new beginning, Clara’s story keeps drawing her into the past. If Clara was never really mentally ill, could something else explain her own mother’s violent act? Piecing together Clara’s fate compels Izzy to re-examine her own choices—with shocking and unexpected results.”

Everything to Lose ~ Andrew Gross
“A determined, (down on her luck, ) mother caring for her handicapped son becomes entangled in a murderous conspiracy to keep a twenty year old secret buried in this blistering thriller, set during the tragic aftermath of Hurricane Sandy, from Andrew Gross, the New York Times bestselling author of 15 Seconds and No Way Back.
While driving along a suburban back road, Hilary Blum, who's just lost her job and whose deadbeat husband has left her alone to care for her son with Asperger's, witnesses a freakish accident. A car ahead of her careens down a hill and slams into a tree. Stopping to help, she discovers the driver dead--and a satchel stuffed with a half a million dollars.
That money could prevent her family's ruin and keep her special needs son in school. In an instant, this honest, achieving woman who has always done the responsible thing makes a decision that puts her in the center of maelstrom of dark consequences and life-threatening recriminations--a terrifying scheme involving a twenty-year-old murder, an old woman who's life has been washed out to sea, and a powerful figure bent to keep the secret that can destroy him hidden.
With everything to lose, everything she loves, Hilary connects to a determined cop from Staten Island, reeling from the disaster of Sandy, to bring down an enemy who will stop at nothing to keep what that money was meant to silence, still buried.”

The Puzzle Barktree ~ Stephanie Gertler
Grace Hammond Barnett grew up in the emotionally desolate company of the strangers who were her mother and father. Her only happy memories are of the times spent with her younger sister, Melanie, and Jemma, the warm-hearted family housekeeper who helped fill the void left by Grace's detached, inaccessible parents. Now a mother herself, Grace feels trapped in a sterile marriage to a prominent surgeon and haunted by the recurrent dreams of drowning. Her only anchor is her cherished daughter, Kate.
In the aftermath of her parents' sudden double suicide -- a tragedy that leaves Grace, Melanie, and Jemma reeling -- Grace is bequeathed a house she never knew existed. Leaving her penthouse in Manhattan on New Year's Eve, she travels alone to Sabbath Landing, New York, to a log cabin house on Canterbury Island, surrounded by Diamond Lake. Here, Grace meets Luke Keegan, a local fishing guide whose family history is inextricably bound to hers...and to a devastating secret buried in the cloudy memory of childhood.
With compassion and elegance, Stephanie Gertler crafts an emotionally rich story of what it means to survive and thrive against all odds. Like its intricate, interlocking pieces that branch out to shape lives, The Puzzle Bark Tree plumbs the mysteries of the people we can never truly know...of the incomplete memories we carry with us, and the love that can make us whole.”


Mean Streak ~ Sandra Brown
Dr. Emory Charbonneau, a paediatrician and marathon runner, disappears on a mountain road in North Carolina. By the time her husband Jeff, miffed over a recent argument, reports her missing, the trail has grown cold. Literally. Fog and ice encapsulate the mountainous wilderness and paralyze the search for her.
While police suspect Jeff of "instant divorce," Emory, suffering from an unexplained head injury, regains consciousness and finds herself the captive of a man whose violent past is so dark that he won't even tell her his name. She's determined to escape him, and willing to take any risks necessary to survive.
Unexpectedly, however, the two have a dangerous encounter with people who adhere to a code of justice all their own. At the center of the dispute is a desperate young woman whom Emory can't turn her back on, even if it means breaking the law.
As her husband's deception is revealed, and the FBI closes in on her captor, Emory begins to wonder if the man with no name is, in fact, her rescuer.”

What are you reading these days?

Blessings
Wednesday, October 29, 2014 | By: Anita

Autumn Decor

Autumn is my favourite season of the year! I really appreciate the pretty colours, and the foods eaten during this time of the year. Oversized comfy sweaters, falling leaves of red, yellow and orange and delicious soups warm my heart in autumn time.

My daughter also loves this time of year as well. And one of the many things she does is bring autumn into her home.

She does this with:

Colour

Autumn is full of so many beautiful colors: red, orange, yellow, and even brown. She uses pumpkins and gourds to showcase the many colours of fall. She’ll add printed sayings about fall and autumn throughout the house. Just by placing these items strategically in and around her home she brings autumn into the house.

Aroma

Candles are also a good way to add autumn aromas in the home; which you will find liberally throughout her house. Scents of cinnamon, pine or apple. Since she is also a great baker she’ll easily whip up a batch of homemade biscuits or muffins to add wondrous scents to her home. This time of year also finds her making soups and with a good stew/chilli simmering it makes her home smell amazing!

Taste

There also seems to be certain foods that just say autumn. I’ve already mentioned stews and soups but she also uses crock-pot meals as a way to add the aroma of autumn to her home. We’ll spend a day together putting 20+ freezer meals that are not only super easy to pop into the crock-pot but also bring the season of fall to mind.

It is her JOY to liven up their home with the beauty autumn brings each year. And with this welcoming atmosphere, all guests, myself included enjoy their time in her home.

How do you bring autumn into your home?

Blessings

Monday, October 27, 2014 | By: Anita

mhmm monday

This time of year finds me in the kitchen baking... muffins, cookies, or breads.   So when this website posted this I knew it was one I wanted to try!

Ingredients:
1 stick softened salted butter
½ c sugar
1 egg
3 large ripened bananas mashed
1 t vanilla
1 c whole wheat flour
1 t baking soda
2 T extra dark cocoa powder
½ c sour cream
1 c dark chocolate chips (mini will work as well, but I prefer regular sized ones in this recipe)
Directions:
Preheat over to 350℉
Grease a 9×5 loaf pan, or 2 mini pans with non-stick spray.
Cream the butter and sugar together.
Stir in the egg, mashed bananas, sour cream, and vanilla until well blended.
Add baking soda, cocoa, and whole wheat flour.
Mix everything until well incorporated.
Add chocolate chips.
Pour batter into loaf pan(s) and bake for 45 minutes for a loaf pan or 30 minutes for a mini loaf pan until a tooth pick inserted in the center come out clean.
Remove from oven and let it cool ten minutes before removing from the pan.
Enjoy!

Blessings
Saturday, October 25, 2014 | By: Anita

Beautiful Thing ~ week # 43

Last weekend The Lambton Museum hosted The Lambton Fall Colour and Craft Festival,  where a variety of craftpersons offer their wares including:
folk art
woodworking
fine art
photography
children and ladies clothing
jewellery
stained glass
pottery
food (baked good, sauces & mixes, candy, etc.)
knitting and crochet
and more, who come together to share their talents.

I enjoy attending each year, and this year Krystle & I set aside the afternoon last Saturday and we wandered throughout the aisles of the many crafters. I usually find myself in awe of their skills, silently wishing I could have excelled in one of those areas. It doesn’t take long before a frown sets in and I have to wonder “But am I using my talents?” That’s when the doubts starts to creep in, and I really to begin to question my value and my worth. The harder I try to push and force myself to be something I’m not, the deeper the rut grows.

Thankfully the Holy Spirit begins to speak and I am reminded “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.  Psalm 139:14 {New International Version {NIV}}
And then I smile to myself!

I remind myself that there is no need to worry. HE has me somewhere else ~ with a purpose that I might not be able to see at the time and to simply appreciate the gifts and talents of others.

What was your beautiful thing this week?

Blessings
Thursday, October 23, 2014 | By: Anita

Happy and know it!

“You're never happy.”  Those are the words said to me by my husband. And I will be honest, the words hurt. However, those words probably hurt because I knew there was truth to them. While the word “never” is a bit extreme, when I'm honest with how I've responded in recent situations, I can appreciate why my husband would make such a statement. 

But those words have pierced my heart. Maybe God needed me to hear those words. Not in an attempt to be hurtful {that is not God}, but to draw me closer to Him..

Life is so full of good things, we ought to be happy. But you, see I equate happy with perfect!

Alice Domar, in her book Be Happy without being Perfect” reminds those of us with perfectionist tendencies that ‘perfection is the enemy of happiness’ and that ‘we’re not perfect and guess what? we don't have to be’.

And yet, if I’m not careful, I tend to rush through the process of living on my way to the next big thing. Too often I've allowied circumstances to dictate whether or not I am happy. I've wasted countless hours and days and even years looking ahead, eager for the following appointment. 


Life will never be perfect. I know, I know I am slow on the uptake…

So through it all, in our longing to have and be more, we need to learn:

to enjoy this place,
to slow down and be present, and
to give thanks for it all.


“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances;
for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus."
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 {New International Version {NIV}}

The truth is, today is all we have. So we might as well live it cheerfully. And honour Him. And bring Him glory. And trust Him. The key to staying HAPPY is to be thankful for all things.  

 ♪♫♫♪ Cause if you’re happy and you know, then you really want to show it… if you’re happy and you know it clap your hands {clap, clap} ♪♫♫♪ 

Happy, not perfect … there is a difference!

Blessings
Monday, October 20, 2014 | By: Anita

mhmm monday

With the cooler days starting to arrive, there is a good feeling about going back to comfort foods in the kitchen.    All recipes shared from this website are tried, tested and true from the kitchens of women just like me.  It's my favourite go to when looking for great new recipes.

Tortellini and Cauliflower Bake 
Ingredients:
4 cups cauliflower, cut bite size
1 (350 g / 12 oz) package tortellini of choice
1 (280 g/ 10 oz) package fresh spinach
1 1/2 cups combination of mozzarella, cheddar and Monterrey Jack Cheese
2 Roma tomatoes, sliced
freeze dried basil

Cheese Sauce:
3 Tbsp butter
2 cloves garlic, crushed
3 Tbsp flour
2 cups milk
1/2 tsp salt
1 1/2 cups combination of mozzarella, cheddar and Monterrey Jack Cheese
1 tsp freeze dried basil

Directions:
Bring a large pot of salted water to boil.
In the meantime, in a saucepan, melt butter, stir in garlic and cook 30 seconds, stirring.
Add flour, stirring in with whisk, gradually adding the milk and stirring until smooth. Add salt, cheese and basil and continue stirring until bubbly. Set aside.
To boiling water in large pot, add cauliflower and bring to boil again, then add tortellini.
Bring to boil once more, cooking cauliflower and tortellini 5 minutes, then add spinach and cook until wilted.
Drain and transfer pasta and vegetables into 2.5 liter /quart oven proof dish.
Pour cheese sauce over top and mix in. Top with grated cheese and tomatoes. Sprinkle with extra basil.
Bake at 375 F for 20 - 30 minutes. Serves 5
Enjoy!

Blessings
Saturday, October 18, 2014 | By: Anita

Beautiful Thing ~ week # 42

On Monday we had our family home to the farm for Thanksgiving dinner… And you know what? I’m really starting to love the tradition of family home for holidays. The house is fuller and is so much more lively when the kids are here… to be honest I had at first debated whether or not to even have Thanksgiving dinner. I wasn’t so sure I wanted to celebrate knowing that our son Kyle {who lives in Orillia} was unable to attend… but I reminded myself that even though he is not able to come, it isn’t fair to the other two who can make it.

As the day approached, I found myself getting super excited to have my family here. That morning, I found myself waking up early, in a bit of a tizzy to start my day. Krystle and Gerard arrived here by mid-day. We played several games and enjoyed the scrumptious appy’s that she brought. Darcy and his roommate arrived later in the afternoon and shortly after that we found ourselves sitting down to a delicious dinner of roast turkey, gravy, scalloped potatoes, mashed potatoes {had received a text earlier in the week requesting both from the boys} stuffing, green beans with sautéed onions, carrots, peas, coleslaw, and bread. And of course no Thanksgiving dinner is complete without Pumpkin Pie, Apple Pie and Krystle brought a Nutella Pumpkin Pie.    Mhmm, mhmm, so good!

Tuesday, was the Anniversary of my 29th birthday.
Having just had the family home the day before and with the Farmer super busy this time of year, the day came and went without much fanfare.  But Krystle wouldn’t let my special day pass by without some sort of celebration. So on Thursday we found ourselves heading off to Beertown for drinks & dinner.

With the Thanksgiving holiday on Monday and my birthday on Tuesday, it was simply a beautiful week! 

What was your beautiful thing this week?

Blessings